
I like the way these guys have described what I’m going to talk about — “So many of us are now using digital tools to communicate that you might have – at one point in time – wondered whether it is impacting our in-person communication. Kirk will help us rediscover the lost art of conversation in an age of isolation and social media bubbles. He will show how, through empathy and curiosity, we can all have better conversations.”
TEDx Perth is April 1.

I like the way these guys have described what I’m going to talk about — “So many of us are now using digital tools to communicate that you might have – at one point in time – wondered whether it is impacting our in-person communication. Kirk will help us rediscover the lost art of conversation in an age of isolation and social media bubbles. He will show how, through empathy and curiosity, we can all have better conversations.”
TEDx Perth is April 1.

Kirk Docker is one of Australia’s finest interviewers and storytellers. He is the co-creator and director of the ABC program You Can’t Ask That, now in its 7th season. The show has been awarded Rose d’Or, AACTA and Walkley awards and is the most successful format in ABC history, selling to 32 territories, and broadcast in 9 different languages world wide. When it comes to the content he creates, no subject is off-topic. Kirk’s interviewees range from ex-politicians to ice users to sexual assault survivors. He has a deep curiosity, compassion and playfulness that elicits honesty from his participants, many of whom have never sat in front of a camera before. Through thousands of hours of open dialogue, what’s become absolutely clear to Kirk is that every human, no matter what they believe or how high their stature, share a core value: the desire to be understood.

Kirk Docker is one of Australia’s finest interviewers and storytellers. He is the co-creator and director of the ABC program You Can’t Ask That, now in its 7th season. The show has been awarded Rose d’Or, AACTA and Walkley awards and is the most successful format in ABC history, selling to 32 territories, and broadcast in 9 different languages world wide. When it comes to the content he creates, no subject is off-topic. Kirk’s interviewees range from ex-politicians to ice users to sexual assault survivors. He has a deep curiosity, compassion and playfulness that elicits honesty from his participants, many of whom have never sat in front of a camera before. Through thousands of hours of open dialogue, what’s become absolutely clear to Kirk is that every human, no matter what they believe or how high their stature, share a core value: the desire to be understood.
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yOU CAN'T ASK THAT
For the last 7 years I’ve been making a show for ABC called You Can’t Ask That. There are 65 episodes over 7 seasons of the show. It is the most successful format in ABC history, with 35 seasons around the world in 9 languages.
For those that don’t know the show I’d describe it as an interview show, where each episode we focus on a misunderstood or marginalised group of Australians – it could be Muslims or people living with Schizophrenia or Bogans. All our participants live with a label. What’re we’re trying to do is go past this label and understand who they truly are. We do that by asking the questions you shouldn’t ask. Maybe you’d like to, but the questions are too rude or too insensitive or maybe you don’t have access to that person to ask it. Each person then gets to answer these questions however they like. The show only features people with first hand experience, so no experts or family speaking on anyone else’s behalf. Just a group of people with a label, talking about what it’s like to be them.